Aamir Khan talks about his red flag in relationships, remembering former wife Kiran Rao and remembering: ‘Whenever I was hurt or my heart was broken ..’. Hindi film news

In Bollywood, Aamir Khan, often named ‘Mr. Perfectionist’, has always impressed fans with dedication to his work. But off-screen, the actor has also started opening more about his personal life and previous mistakes. In a recent chat with podcaster Raj Shamani, Aamir spoke honestly about the emotional challenges coming to his wedding with filmmaker Kiran Rao.Reducing his guard, the ‘Lagaan’ actor reflected at the moments that still bother him, especially a where he spontaneously admitted to hurting Kiran so deeply that she broke into tears.‘A workholic was a red flag’Asked if he has shown any red flag in his relationship, Aamir did not keep back. He admitted that being “workholic” was one of his biggest defects. He shared that in the earlier stages of his life, he was completely consumed by work. Emotional immaturity, he said, often controlled it.Aamir revealed that whenever he feels emotionally hurt, he would retreat completely. He said that he would not talk to anyone for the days and explained, “Whenever I get hurt or my heart broke, I will stop completely – as the shutters would come down around me. After that, it was impossible for anyone to reach me.”‘I was very hurt, I stopped talking to Kiran’Recalling a specific disagreement with Kiran Rao, the ‘PK’ actor said that this was the argument of a specific husband and wife. He admitted that he did not even remember what it was now, but it impressed him deeply at that time. He felt so sad that he stopped completely.Even though they were sharing the same house, sleeping in the same room, and even on the same bed, he refused to speak it properly. He said that he only responded to him, small, kurt. He described it as his indirect way to show it that he was unhappy.Four days passed, and one night, Kiran tried to talk to him again. But Aamir was still not ready to answer. Then she broke in front of her. He cried crying her words clearly and said, “Muje Samaj Nahi Aa Raha Kya Kya Karoon, of toh, it has reacted to the reaction.”‘Deep injury … ego is the right word for this’The ‘3 Idiots’ actor admitted that even though he knew that the situation was far away, he was back from a mixture of emotions. He said that the main reason he could not do peace was his ego. “Deep injury … ego is a very correct word for him,” he said.He confessed that he wanted to improve things, but emotionally, he was not in the right place to take the first step. It was only much later, through therapy, that he began to feel this pattern in itself. He called it a red flag – inability to forgive when he hurt deeply.